Romanticism & Feminism: My Relationship Mistakes, & Why You Should Learn From Them

Misconstrued Thoughts I had never dated in high school. I liked to believe that I was in control of that – that I didn’t want to because boys were stupid and I was too unique. This belief actually followed through into my college years. I cut my hair to a pixie cut, and I dressed … More Romanticism & Feminism: My Relationship Mistakes, & Why You Should Learn From Them

My Very First Valentine’s Date & How to Maximize your Special Dates

Before February 14, 2016, I’ve not once spent a Valentine’s with a date. It isn’t important to me that I do. I know that valentine’s day is simply a creation out of a capitalist nation, but either way I would like to note down my first valentine’s day with my boyfriend. My Experience: Preparation: I … More My Very First Valentine’s Date & How to Maximize your Special Dates

My Life Dating a Recovering(?) Alcoholic and How I Make it “Work”

   Note: This isn’t a “how-to” date an alcoholic. Generally speaking, relationships will have their ups and downs, but choosing to be committed and to build a life with a recovering alcoholic will affect your life tremendously. You will get hurt, but that doesn’t mean it has to stop you from being your best self … More My Life Dating a Recovering(?) Alcoholic and How I Make it “Work”

Communicate with your Partner’s Love Language

  Photo credit: http://laura-makabresku.deviantart.com/art/autumn-evenings-I-325706376 There are five different types of love languages according to Gary Chapman and each person communicates with them differently. It’s important to know your partner’s love languages, so you can find the source of relationship problems and use the means to fix it. For instance, if I was to attempt to salvage … More Communicate with your Partner’s Love Language

Post Graduation Depression and a Plan to Battle it

  (Photo Source: http://laura-makabresku.deviantart.com/art/evening-walks-531215263) Before I met the end (of school), I was excited with all the possibilities that I could take after I graduated. I thought of how I would be able to travel abroad, work full-time in a job that I love, gain independence, and start the life I always dreamt of. Now that … More Post Graduation Depression and a Plan to Battle it

Reborn Hope

  “A woman I know well always treats her current romance as if it’s her first.  She always looks like she’s never fallen in love with someone before that. That’s how it should be.” – Kaiki Deshu Photo Credit: http://agnes-cecile.deviantart.com/art/This-should-be-the-place-429674592 I often throw myself into terrible relationships because I want to believe that it will cultivate … More Reborn Hope